Resolution: Organize - Week 4

Week 4: Organize Your Priorities

I have to admit, I way suck at this. I have my entire life. So, I’m glad this has come along. Although its kind of a lacking chapter. I kind of want the book to tell me what my priorities are. If I knew my priorities, I wouldn’t have much of a problem organizing them. But, they give SOME tips:

·        Ask yourself, who and what is important to me? Think of your motivation, what you want to accomplish in life.

·        Your priorities should reflect what is important to you. If you don’t decide what they are, others will decide for you. Whoa, deep. And so true. I think we’ve all been there. Keep a list of your priorities handy (bathroom mirror, wallet, dashboard) so you can be reminded at all times.

·        Make a top 10 list.  I give you permission to watch Lettermen for research. Kidding. Draw up 10 things you are currently active in. Then your 10 priorities. What doesn’t get on the priorities list needs to be cut from your active roster.

·        Schedule time to achieve your priorities. If building your relationship with your partner is a Top 10, plan date night and stick to it! You are both worth it, and the other stuff can wait.

·        Learn to say no! Oy. Have you heard the saying “stop me before I volunteer again”?? That could SO be me. Its simple and brainless – I say no to every other request, unless its dire.

·        Minimize time spent with negative people. Easier said than done. Sometimes those relationships are long and tight. I struggle with this daily.

·        Once a Month: Take time to call/write/visit a friend. Love this idea. I have a big group of girl friends that are all over the country. I think I will write more letters and cards.

·        Every 3-6 Months: Review your list and modify priorities as your life changes. Seasons and growth can really change your life. For instance, getting outside isn’t as much of a priority in the winter (since I’m no ski bunny) than in the summer.

·        Once a Year: Evaluate your activities from the past year. Decide if you want to renew this commitment.